Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Walk With Me Through 2019...

2019 was filled with ALL the toddler craziness :)

I feel like I am always saying that our life is crazy. And in so many ways it is. We wrapped up the year with 3 {count them, THREE} toddlers...and that's pretty much the definition of crazy. Haha. But while that is certainly the stage we are in right now, there are so many sweet blessings along the way. And I promise they're not lost on me. In the midst of the chaos, I try really hard to focus and remember. Remember how just a short time ago we were longing for this craziness. Remember how much the Lord has provided in and for our family. And it makes me incredibly grateful for this sweet life He has give to us.

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I kicked off January with a few resolutions...let's just say I had some pretty high hopes for the amount of time and energy I would have to complete those haha. We spent a lot of time indoors, reading books, playing LEGOs, and we even enjoyed some indoor snow activities in our hopes of real snow. Despite the frigid temperatures, we did brave the cold to visit the Dallas Area Train Show.  I also got to sneak away for a fun Mama-Getaway and it was just as glorious as I had imagined :)

In February, my nieces threw me an adorable birthday party, and it was the perfect way to celebrate 34! Aiden started solids, with avocado being his first and favorite food. And Eli and Maddie started fulfilling the old adage of "double trouble." So things were a bit crazy in our house!

We were rocked by sickness in March, but once we were well again, we were thankful to start having playdates with some neighbor friends! We were still busy with the 3 under 3 crew, but we found time to blow bubbles, play with clay, have a picnic, play at Crayola, and have lunch with my co-workers. Of course, the toddler antics were at an all-time high with the Unthinkable Poop Incident, so it's no wonder that I found my first gray/silver hair this month! Oh, and I also got a new computer :)

April was a full, fun month! We got to share our embryo adoption story through our agency, go to the zoo, and spend lots of time with Grandma and Papa. We got to celebrate our friend Cooper's birthday, spend lots of time playing outside, and eat homemade soft pretzels for National Pretzel Day. I took my last citrate-filled Humira shot, and we counted down to Easter with fun activities with The Shepherd's Treasure.

Grandma came to visit again in May, we visited the new Buc-ee's in our town, and I got to experience the joy and blessing of a citrate-FREE Humira shot! Since the weather was getting warmer, we spent a lot of time playing with our new water table and playing golf in the backyard.

In June, we wrapped up our Spring Bucket List with a trip to the McKinney Farmer's Market and blueberry picking at Blase Family Farms. We also kicked off the summer with lots of trips to our neighborhood pool and splash pad. We needed to practice our skills from last summer, because Eli and Maddie started swim lessons again! June also saw more toddler antics with Eli and Maddie eating Butt Paste {they were fine}, tracking carpet deodorizer all over the house, and climbing onto tables to spill full cups of water. We enjoyed an evening of bowling with Mike's family, and we attended our cities Fourth of July celebration {yes, they had it in June}. I also publicly shared about my struggle with postpartum anxiety and depression.

We were having all the summer fun in July! We played in the sprinklers, dressed like cows to get free Chick-Fil-A, spent more time at Crayola, celebrated National Ice Cream Day, and ate lots of popsicles. Eli and Maddie finished their first 100 books for the "1000 Books Before Kindergarten Challenge." Aiden started standing up, and then he transitioned to a convertible car seat {at only 10 months!}. Mike and I celebrated 8 years of marriage with a fun date night full of sushi, cheesecake, and uninterrupted conversation :)

By August, I was learning that toddler antics was just OUR LIFE NOW. Toothpaste spread over a closet full of clothes, pen marks on their bodies, crayon on the furniture/walls, sidewalk chalk on the tile floor, and formula powder everywhere were just the highlights. Good thing for skype calls with Grandma and emergency lunch dates with and flowers from Daddy! Maddie was diagnosed with strabismus, so we started patching with her. Aiden got his first haircut in preparation for his first birthday; our baby turned 1 year old, and we celebrated with a fun One in a Melon birthday party. My parents also celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary, and we got to celebrate my Dad's 60th birthday!

We started our own version of Toddler School in September, and we also started attending BSF on Wednesdays. I was able to read and review the new Risen Motherhood book {loved it!}, and Maddie finally got her first haircut! Aiden weaned off bottles completely, and I may or may not have shower cried for days because it meant we didn't have a baby anymore. We also traveled to San Antonio to celebrate my Grandpa's 90th birthday! 

In October, we visited a small pumpkin patch with Granny and Grumpz, played at a fun new park, and attended Anna's Harvest Fest. It was finally cooling off, so we could spend more time taking walks, playing at the park, and running around outside. We also introduced Gus the Green Bug in an effort to help Eli, who was waking up multiple times a night. 

November was jam-packed with fun events! I blogged about Halloween {where we dressed up to fit the theme "These are my monkeys; this is my circus"}, and we went trick-or-treating in our neighborhood for the first time! Eli and Maddie turned 3, and we celebrated with a fun THREE-esta party. And so we officially survived 3 under 3 :)  We found colorful leaves pretty much everywhere we went and painted {canvas} pumpkins. We got to have dinner with some old Redeemer friends, share Crayola with our friend Cooper, and reorganized our play room. We added leaves to our gratitude tree, celebrated Mike's birthday with a colorful banner, and spent Thanksgiving with Mike's family.

In December, we walked through The Shepherd's Treasure and our Jesse Tree Advent readings. We went to see the Trains at North Park, watched our city's Christmas parade, decorated Christmas cookies, made a gingerbread house and Christmas cards, and had an overall fun-filled Christmas season with family!

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2019 was the year of surviving 3 kids under 3 years old. We had some challenging days, but we also had some really fun days. God was incredibly gracious to us, and we are thankful for all the ways He provides for and takes care of our family. We're looking forward to what He has in store for us in 2020!


1000 Books Before Kindergarten :: 500!

We made it halfway to our goal! We have definitely read a lot faster than I thought I would...I love that my kids LOVE books! :)

You can find the books we have already read here:


  1. Betty Goes Bananas by Steve Antony
  2. Pete the Cat: Old MacDonald Had a Farm by James Dean
  3. Little Yellow Truck by Eve Bunting*
  4. Butterfly House by Eve Bunting
  5. Pete the Cat: Construction Destruction by James Dean*
  6. Up! Up! Up! Skyscraper by Anastasia Suen
  7. Everything But the Horse by Holly Hobbie
  8. Earthmovers and Diggers by Mary Kate Doman*
  9. Bulldozers by Katie Kawa*
  10. Tractors by Katie Kawa*
  11. Pete the Cat and the Bad Banana by James Dean*
  12. Zack at the Dentist by Jonathan London and Jack Medoff
  13. Pete the Cat: Meet Pete by James Dean*
  14. How Do Dinosaurs Go to Sleep? by Jane Yolen*
  15. Garbage Trucks by Julie Murray*
  16. Pete the Cat's Groovy Bake Sale by James Dean*
  17. Bread and Jam for Frances by Russell Hoban
  18. The Gruffalo by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler*
  19. School Buses by Julie Murray*
  20. Pete the Cat and the Missing Cupcakes by James Dean*
  21. One Two That's My Shoe! by Alison Murray
  22. Duck, Duck, Dinosaur: Perfect Pumpkin by Kallie George*
  23. Fireman Small-- Fire Down Below! by Wong Herbert Yee
  24. Seven Spunky Monkeys by Jackie French Koller and Lynn Munsinger*
  25. Please, Mr. Panda by Steve Antony*
  26. Clifford The Big Red Dog by Norman Birdwell*
  27. My Toothbrush is Missing! by Jan Thomas
  28. The Shepherd's Treasure by Stephanie Parker
  29. Little Gorilla by Ruth Bornstein
  30. It Looked Like Spilt Milk by Charles G. Shaw
  31. Lola at the Library by Anna McQuinn
  32. Global Baby Bedtimes by Maya Ajmera
  33. Pete the Cat and the Tip-Top Tree House by James Dean*
  34. Little Bunny's Christmas Tree by Jeanne Modesitt
  35. Snowbear's Christmas Countdown by Theresa Smythe*
  36. Big Bear's Big Boat by Eve Bunting
  37. Max & Ruby Twin Trouble by Rosemary Wells
  38. Dinosaurs Don't Have Bedtimes! by Timothy Knapman
  39. The Animals' Merry Christmas by Richard Scarry
  40. Click, Clack, Ho! Ho! Ho! by Doreen Cronin and Betsy Lewin*
  41. The Little Snowplow Wishes for Snow by Lora Koehler*
  42. I Wish It Would Snow! by Sarah Dillard
  43. If Animals Celebrated Christmas by Ann Whitford Paul
  44. Old Bear and His Cub by Olivier Dunrea
  45. Merry Christmas, Curious George by Cathy Hapka*
  46. Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones*
  47. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss*
  48. Merry Christmas, Squirrels! by Nancy Rose
  49. The Christmas Quiet Book by Deborah Underwood
  50. The Twelve Days of Christmas by LeUyen Pham
  51. 12 Groovy Days of Christmas by James Dean*
  52. How Do Dinosaurs Say Merry Christmas? by Jane Yolen*
  53. The Christmas Bears by Chris Conover
  54. Little Chick by Amy Hest
  55. The Day the Crayons Quit by Drew Daywalt*
  56. Biscuit's Christmas Storybook Collection by Alyssa Satin Capucilli*
  57. A Very Fuddles Christmas by Frans Vischer*
  58. Sally's Great Balloon Adventure by Stephen Huneck*
  59. My Daddy is a Silly Monkey by Dianne Hofmeyer
  60. What Dogs Want for Christmas by Kandy Radzinski
  61. Spunky Little Monkey by Bill Martin, Jr. and Michael Sampson
  62. Panda Bear, Panda Bear, What Do You See? by Bill Martin and Eric Carle*
  63. Christmas Cheer for the Grouchy Ladybug by Eric Carle*
  64. Duck, Duck, Dinosaur: Snowy Surprise by Kallie George*
  65. I Love My Baby by Sebastien Braun
  66. Father Fox's Christmas Rhymes by Clyde Watson
  67. Croc & Turtle: Snow Fun! by Mike Wohnoutka
  68. Baby Bear, Baby Bear, What Do You See? by Bill Martin, Jr.*
  69. A Long Time that I've Loved You by Margaret Wise Brown*
  70. Stretch by Doreen Cronin
  71. Click, Clack, Surprise! by Doreen Cronin*
  72. What Daddies Like by Judy Carey Nevin
  73. Good Night, Little Blue Truck by Alice Schertle*
  74. A Fox Found a Box by Ged Adamson
  75. It's Winter by Joyce Jeffries
  76. Bright Christmas by Andrew Clements*
  77. Pete the Cat: Snow Daze by James Dean*
  78. Mr. Brown Can Moo! Can You? by Dr. Seuss*
  79. Go, Pete, Go by James Dean*
  80. Red Light, Green Light by Anastasia Suen
  81. Ten, Nine, Eight by Molly Bang
  82. Come Along, Daisy! by Jane Simmons
  83. How Do Dinosaurs Go to School? by Jane Yolen
  84. The Great Cheese Chase by Laura F. Marsh and Stu Krieger
  85. Get With the Beat! by Laura F. Marsh
  86. Bee-bim Bop! by Linda Sue Park
  87. The Relatives Came by Cynthia Rylant
  88. A Visitor for Bear by Bonny Becker*
  89. Daniel Goes to the Playground by Becky Friedman*
  90. At the Zoo by Bendon
  91. Nighty-Night by Bendon
  92. Friends Ask First by Becky Friedman*
  93. Sweeter Than the Sweetest Honey by The Daily Grace Co.*
  94. Eyes & Nose, Fingers & Toes by Bendon
  95. The Fruit of the Spirit by The Daily Grace Co.*
  96. Christmas Wombat by Jackie French
  97. Counting Christmas by Karen Kratz
  98. Snowy Bear by Tony Mitton*
  99. Where Do Diggers Sleep at Night? by Brianna Caplan Sayres*
  100. What's Wrong, Little Pookie? by Sandra Boynton*

*Some of our favorites


{iPhone Rewind} :: December

A rare smile for a posed photo

Say "cheese," Maddie

These are the sweet moments...

We had to switch to toddler beds this month! Against Mama's will. Send help.

Diaper delivery day is always a big hit...they built towers and obstacles for over an hour!

Don't let this cute 15-month-old smile fool you...he screamed bloody murder the whole time the pediatrician was examining him {read: listening to his heart and looking in his ears}. No tears. Just drama.

We love that we are close enough to walk {take a wagon ride} to our town's Christmas parade!

Sibling snuggles :)

My silly girl...so full of personality!

12 Love Notes of Christmas for Mike :)

He's so serious about his books

Snuggles with all my babies

We got new matching stockings this year, and they're a BIG hit :)

He's starting to sit more to read books...I'm hoping this is the beginning of a love for books for him too!

Our little Pooh Bear :)

Sasha wins all the awards for most patient dog. Seriously. She lets him climb ALL over her and never once complains.

Also, I'm loving these back door jammies :)

Flowers from my sweet boy Eli; he picked them out himself!

Jamming all the cotton balls in his mouth #buddytheelf

A rare moment of sharing :)

Our twins' personalities summed up in one photo {note the crayons}

Playing with fun Christmas presents


Monday, December 30, 2019

Christmas 2019 :: Part 2 and 3

While we enjoyed a quiet Christmas at home, our Christmas festivities were not over! My parents came into town for the weekend, so we got to enjoy some good Grandma and Papa time. Our time included playing games, a trip to Crayola {for the kiddos, while Mommy ran a few errands solo!}, and reading books.





And of course, we had another Christmas to open up fun presents! Eli's beloved toy was a large Tonka garbage truck, Maddie got a cute purse and diaper bag, complete with car keys and cell phone, and Aiden got a little toy wagon. We had some pretty excited kiddos :)









Grandma and Papa also bought a subscription to a Koala Box from Kiwi Co. I have seen these for awhile now, and have wanted to try it, so it was fun to open up the first one to see what it was all about. I think these are going to be a great activity box to look forward to every month!



On Sunday, we headed over to Granny's for Christmas with the McCullough side of the family. Lindsay's crew was sick, so we missed having them there, but it was a fun time for my kids to enjoy undivided attention from the older cousins...and they had a blast! There was no shortage of fun things to open!







We had such a fun Christmas season celebrating with family, and we are so thankful for how much our kids are loved and doted on :)


Sunday, December 29, 2019

Embryo Adoption :: Our Journey {2019}

As I mentioned last year, the journey to building our family has come to an end. But there is still so much left to write in our Embryo Adoption story! We are now in the thick of parenting 3 snowflake children. We have shared their unique story with them since they were tiny babies, but even now at 3 years old, Eli and Maddie are starting to put together pieces of their story. I am trying to prepare myself for the questions that are inevitably coming!

Here are a few posts I wrote this year, that relate to Embryo Adoption...


April 3, 2019: The Beauty of a Snowflake {we got to share our story on our agency's website}

October 15, 2019: Carried for a Moment 

November 25, 2019: Embryo Adoption Awareness Day {list of children's books about embryo donation/adoption}

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I may not have as many links as in prior years, but more of our time now is spent on parenting, and not specifically the journey of building our family. So while Embryo Adoption is a big part of our kids' stories, it is only a part of their story. There will inevitably be conversations that are unique to our kids only, but right now we get the joy of just being parents. And that is the most incredible gift that Embryo Adoption has given to us.


Thursday, December 26, 2019

Christmas 2019

We enjoyed a quiet Christmas Eve at home. Since the weather was so nice {read: warm} we decided to take a walk up to Melissa City Hall to see the Christmas tree. And yes, the kiddos went in their pajamas :)



We had planned to go to the Christmas Eve service at church, but since several of us were feeling under the weather, we just decided to stay home. We were sad to miss the service, but it was still fun to have some more family time. We let the kiddos open up one present on Christmas Eve: their Christmas pajamas! Everyone was really excited to go to sleep in their new pajamas.





Christmas morning was so fun! Eli and Maddie knew that the Christmas stockings would be out on Christmas morning {because we had to put them away after putting them up a couple of weeks ago...#becausetoddlers}, but they were super excited to see that there were also presents out on Christmas morning!






They had already opened their Christmas pajamas the night before {something they could wear}, so on Christmas morning they opened some new books {something to read}. Eli got a set of dinosaurs, Maddie got a box of dress up clothes, and Aiden got a play tunnel and colored balls {something to play or create with}.





We also did some stocking stuffers for them this year, and I filled them with coloring books, new crayons, stickers, some prizes from a few past Crayola trips {because Mommy found them tucked away later and just decided they would go into Christmas stockings haha}, and the boys got some Mickey ears {since Maddie already has some Minnie ears}. Oh, and Aiden got his very own remote, so hopefully he will leave ours alone :)


Aiden's remote {Thanks Mrs. Laura!}







Even Sasha got to match :)


We got a special Christmas treat: Uncle Michael came to play! We were so excited to see him, and the kids wasted no time roping him into their activities.




While the kiddos napped {that's a loose term...there was too much excitement}, the adults watched the new animated Grinch movie and made more Oreo balls. And then we spent the afternoon playing and just enjoying Christmas together.


It was a fun Christmas as a family, and we look forward to even more Christmas festivities to come this weekend!